Ego Death: Not a Free Ticket to Nirvana
For Seekers: Unraveling the Myth That Death Equals Enlightenment
You think dying gets you a front-row seat to Nirvana?
Let's shatter that illusion.
The Mirage of Death as Enlightenment
Wake up, it's not that simple.
Death might seem like the ultimate escape, the final dropping of the ball, but it's no express train to enlightenment. Why should it be?
Here's a little secret: dying doesn't dissolve your ego. It just ends the physical game, not the mental one. Picture a dream, vivid and all-consuming. Now imagine waking up. The dream ends, but does your sense of 'I' vanish with it? No. It clings on, stubborn as ever.
Physical death, in this case, is just waking from one dream into another, not the grand dissolution of the ego. Enlightenment isn't about dropping the body. It's about shedding the layers of illusion, the persistent belief in 'I' and 'mine.'
Physical demise? A mere change of scenery.
Ego Death: The Real Deal
Ego death is where the magic happens.
It's the crux of the matter. The ego, a master storyteller, spins tales of 'I,' 'me,' and 'mine,' creating a fortress of illusion.
Ego death isn't just a concept; it's a visceral, bone-deep annihilation of this illusion. Imagine a soap bubble, shimmering with the colors of identity and personal history. Ego death is that bubble bursting, leaving nothing behind. No colors, no bubble, no air of individuality.
It's not a physical death but a psychological and spiritual one. The ego dies, and with it, the false sense of separation. You're not reaching a destination…
…you're realizing there never was a journey.
Nirvana: Not a Destination, but a Realization
Nirvana is misunderstood.
It's not a heavenly abode you reach post-mortem. It's the stark, blinding truth of non-duality, the absence of 'I.'
It's here and now, not somewhere you go when you die. Think of the ocean. Individual waves rise and fall, believing in their separateness. Nirvana is the realization that there's only ocean, no waves. It's a shift in perception, not a post-death reward.
In this state, there's no 'you' to experience enlightenment. It's not a new state of being but the recognition of what has always been true…
…the absence of the individual self.
Embrace the Journey Without Seeking a Destination
The path to enlightenment is a paradox.
Seek it, and you move further away. Stop seeking, and you might just find it.
It's not about reaching a higher state but realizing there was never a lower one to escape from. Begin by questioning, not who you will become, but who you believe you are now. Strip away the layers, not in search of something new, but to uncover the timeless truth that lies beneath.
Ego death, enlightenment, Nirvana – these aren't milestones to achieve but myths to see through.
The real journey is the unbecoming of what you never were.
I love finding other non-dual writers such as yourself, and discovering how words can articulate as best they can the experiences we go through. This is such a well written thought on ego death, thank you! 🙏🏼